14 Ridiculously Easy Ways To Manifest Self-Love
You may have heard that when working with the law of attraction it’s important to manifest self-love. In my experience, I’ve found this to be true. This is because self-love is the foundation for manifesting what you want.
The more self-love you have, the easier it is to get what you want. When you give off the vibration of “I am worthy”, then you create more of what you want because you feel worthy to receive it.
How Self-Love Helps You to Manifest with the Law of Attraction
Self-love:
- Makes you more attractive
- Helps you to be open to receiving
- Opens you up to dream big & achieve your goals
- Helps you to feel worthy of what you want
- Magnetizes people to you
- Helps you to feel peace and contentment
- Motivates you to raise your standards & not settle for less than you want & deserve
- Puts you into balance (so that you aren’t only giving without receiving)
- Helps you trust yourself, your intuition, and your decisions
- Supercharges your confidence
- Makes it easier to build strong connections with others
How to Manifest Self-Love
1. Manifest Self Love with Affirmations
One of the best ways to manifest self-love is to say “I AM” affirmations. When you say affirmations enough times, then you eventually start to believe them. It also helps you to focus on the things you find good and positive within yourself vs looking at the things you consider to be bad or negative.
Examples of “I AM” affirmations:
- I AM beautiful
- I AM a good person
- I AM talented
- I AM confident
- I AM worthy
- I AM amazing
- I AM kind
- I AM gorgeous
- I AM unique
- I AM generous
If you want, come up with more of your own affirmations that feel good to you and read these “I AM” affirmations every day.
2. Manifest Self-Love with Activities You Enjoy
Self-love activities can help you to manifest self-love quicker because they send the message that you are important, what you want matters, and that you are taking care of yourself. When you take care of yourself, you’ll receive more manifestations to ‘take care’ of you.
There are many self-love activities you can do. Pick ones that feel good to you. What makes you feel nurtured and loved?
Is it taking a bubble bath? Or is it eating your favorite foods? Maybe it’s going outside and being alone for a few minutes to connect with nature and nurture your soul.
Pick something that feels good to you, that shows that you are taking care of yourself and that you are a priority.
3. Manifest Self-Love by What You Are Saying to Yourself
One of the most important ways to manifest self-love is through your inner speech. You have a lot of mind chatter and say a lot of things to yourself every day. You may not even be aware of what you are saying.
This is why it’s super important to make sure that you are saying kind and loving things to yourself and not putting yourself down.
Begin to pay attention to your inner speech and every time you catch yourself saying anything negative about yourself, flip it around to something positive. The more you do this, the more it will become a habit until eventually, that is how you will talk to yourself all the time.
4. Manifest Self-Love by Accepting Compliments
Another important element of manifesting self-love is accepting compliments. When most people receive a compliment, they deny it or play it down, ultimately saying “this isn’t true.”
Why do you do that? It’s because society has told us that it’s selfish and it’s bad to think you’re better than anyone else. Well, you aren’t being selfish or thinking you are better than anyone. You are simply seeing your own greatness. There is nothing selfish about that.
Denying yourself the love you deserve leads to low self-esteem. So, next time someone gives you a compliment, why not try to accept it and acknowledge it? Notice how you feel and what comes up when you do. There might be some guilt at first or it may feel uncomfortable and that is normal. It will go away as you begin to grow your self-love.
Also, why not start giving yourself compliments throughout the day? They can be said out loud or to yourself in your head. Saying nice things to yourself will also help you to manifest more self-love.
5. Manifest Self-Love by Treating Yourself with Love
One of the most important things you can do when manifesting self-love is to treat yourself with love. Treat yourself the same way you treat someone you love. Think about someone you love and how you treat them. Then flip that around and give yourself the same love.
Would you put someone down that you care about and say mean things to them? I doubt it. So, make sure you are doing the same for yourself. Build up your confidence and be supportive of yourself without judgment. Treat yourself with unconditional love.
6. Manifest Self-Love by Finding Love from the Inside
I know that everyone says to find love within, and it can be annoying to hear but it’s true. So, what does this mean exactly?
It means not looking to the external to love or validate yourself but doing it for you. Tell yourself that you are amazing no matter what anyone on the outside says.
This doesn’t mean that you don’t receive love from the outside. It just means that you also receive it from the inside. You don’t have to constantly be brimming with love for yourself. You just need to be aware of when you aren’t doing it and make a slight shift to embody more self-love.
Find all the good things you love about yourself and focus on those instead of what you aren’t good at. Look at all the amazing traits you have and really, truly feel good about yourself.
7. Manifest Self-Love by Letting Go of Judgement for Yourself & Others
Judgment is a lower vibration and if you are judging yourself and others then you are keeping yourself in lower energy and in separation. Once you go to the higher realms you see that we are all one and judgment has no place.
I find that many people tend to be the hardest on themselves and judge themselves even more than they judge others. I used to be one of those people and I actually thought that it made me a good person. However, it doesn’t. It is a sign of low self-worth.
Dropping judgments of others and yourself will help you to skyrocket your self-love and manifest faster as your vibration raises.
8. Manifest Self-Love by Being Open to Receiving
A part of manifesting self-love is to be open to receiving. You need a balance between giving and receiving and if you are only giving that will lead to resentment and burnout. So be as open as you can to receive whatever comes your way.
This can include things such as receiving compliments, gifts, love, help from others, and anything else that people want to give you. The person who is giving feels really good when they give so don’t deprive them of that! Allow the flow of the universe to balance between giving and receiving.
9. Manifest Self-Love by Forgiving Yourself
In my opinion, forgiving yourself is one of the biggest ways to manifest self-love. Many people have the tendency to forgive others and be harsh with themselves. But when you can forgive yourself for anything that you are holding onto and be gentle with yourself then you are truly embodying self-love.
10. Manifest Self-Love by Taking Care of Your Body
Another way to manifest self-love is to take care of your body. Your body and soul are connected and if you are feeding them both with love and taking care of them then you’ll thrive.
When you take care of your body, you are saying, “I’m important and my health is important and a priority to me.” This sends out an energy that you are important as are your needs. When you feel amazing, then you thrive.
What is one thing you can do every day to begin to take care of your body more? Start doing this today to manifest more self-love into your life.
11. Manifest Self-Love by Finding the Good Things About You (Vs. the Bad)
If you have low self-esteem, then you likely focus on the ‘bad’ things about yourself. When you do this, it causes you to feel worse and worse about yourself.
When manifesting more self-love it’s important to focus on the good things about yourself. This will raise your confidence and help you to feel powerful.
This will help shift your energy from one of low self-worth to one of high self-worth. What you think about yourself is the single most important thing to attract what you want.
12. Manifest Self-Love by Letting Go of Perfectionism
When you try to be perfect, you send out the signal that you are not good enough as you are. You strive for some unrealistic expectation that you put on yourself which can never be achieved. This can wreak havoc on your self-esteem because you will never feel good enough.
Perfectionism isn’t a real thing because no one can define what perfect is. What perfect is to one person is different to someone else. So, perfectionism is in the eye of the beholder.
Give yourself some breathing room to put yourself or your work out there as best as you can but with ‘flaws’. Look at everything you do as a learning experience to get better.
When you hold yourself back until something is perfect then you stop your own growth. But the more times you do something and are ok with it being imperfect, you get better and better each time.
Allow yourself to be ok with flaws. You are likely the hardest person on yourself, and others probably won’t even notice your ‘imperfections’ the way that you do.
13. Manifest More Self-Love by Not Comparing Yourself to Others
When you compare yourself to other people, then you’ll never feel good enough. There will always be someone who you perceive to be better than you.
However, what you see in others is what is inside you as well. You wouldn’t see it in them if you didn’t already have it inside of you as well. So, know that you too can have that.
It’s also important to put some perspective on what you are comparing yourself to. Many photos of people on the internet do not tell their whole story, they are simply a few seconds of time, and they may not even be real! Someone smiling and pretending that they have a perfect life may have extreme anxiety and depression. You really don’t know what people are going through.
People don’t usually share the bad as much as the good because they want to come across a certain way and not be vulnerable. They want to come across as though they have it all together even if they don’t.
Take everything with a grain of salt and if you’re manifesting self-love stay focused on yourself. How can you improve yourself? Leave everyone else out of the picture and focus on becoming the best version of yourself.
14. Manifest Self-Love by Investing in Yourself
Investing in yourself shows that you are a priority and that your growth is important. I find the people who love themselves the most invest in their well-being and their future. They do things that help them grow because they know the benefits of it.
They know that taking a course or reading a life-changing book will move them further ahead in life than buying a new pair of pants. Of course, there is absolutely nothing wrong with splurging or buying things you like. But someone who loves themselves makes it a priority to first and foremost invest in their own growth. Their growth comes first because they know in the long term that will be the most powerful route to achieving their goals.
In Conclusion
When you manifest self-love your whole world changes, from how others treat you to what you attract to yourself. Self-love is the foundation for successful manifestation and a successful life. Use these tips to begin to manifest more self-love into your life and shift your reality starting today.
~Meghan
Pssst…this is something I teach more in-depth in my online course Your Self-Love Transformation.
In this course, you’ll learn easy self-love practices that make you wildly magnetic, how to create unshakable confidence, conquer your limiting beliefs, master the voices in your head that are keeping you stuck, and learn how to love yourself fully and why it is the key to manifesting anything you want.
